Love is one of the questions we have always attempted to answer in more than one way. This only shows that it is quite impossible to grasp and comprehend the totality of its being. But we try, don’t we? We try to find out by loving and being loved. We try and find out by getting hurt when we enter a relationship. When you commit yourself to someone, you must bear in mind that you are also sharing a part of yourself to a stranger, who by mere chance or destined fate you happened to like and love. In doing so, you take a risk, a great risk. He is different, that is why you should not expect him to be like you; posses the same thoughts to win the same emotions; you love him because he is he not because he is you. In doing so, you must accept him, his totality as a person. Growth is brought by your indifference in which, one way or another cultivates your relationship. It is also important to remember that trust is the vital element in any relationship. Unconditional trust……..No If’s….No But’s…! When you love, love honestly and then you must be willing to sacrifice. There are times when you hurt go deep, when pain is almost unbearable, when you are about to give up so easily. It is being there, when all have gone, when there is very little strength left, when it is too much to stand. is trusting, loving is letting be. There is really no difference between “AS A MATTER OF FACT” and the romantic way. You might just be indifferent phase of understanding, which may be to cause misinterpretation. If he says he is honest with you, then don’t kill yourself by saying he is not. How do you know? His past experience is not enough to doubt him. If he can offer you the “AS A MATTER OF FACT” then accept it and you can love him in romantic way then do so. Please do not measure the exchange. Just be honest with each other and have an open channel of communication constantly, where there is a free sharing of ideas, NO IF’S…. NO BUT’S…..! Just love. Nobody promises you a rose garden, but you are a promise. Give the best of your life! Love and get hurt….get hurt and learn….learn and love again. It’s just a cycle. Experience that you are in a circle. I hope I make sense of whatever thoughts I shared with you. You see I know because I’m INLOVE too… BE CAREFUL… STRIVE TO BE HAPPY!

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